The sibling experience: growing up with a trans sibling

Abstract

ABSTRACT Objective: Research has addressed the experiences of parents, children, and spouses of trans people. The experiences of the siblings of trans people are explored in this study. Method: Thematic analysis was performed on the transcripts of semi-structured interviews with seventeen siblings of trans people. Results: Evidence was found for an umbrella theme (the responsibility to support and protect) and three themes: (“societal issues”, “relationship with their trans sibling”, “family and social relationships”). Results indicated that participants engaged in a process of family transition. Challenges participants faced included: lack of knowledge of trans identities, a lack of trans visibility in society, acting as an intermediary between their trans sibling and others, managing conflict, experiencing relational strain and cut-off, holding the knowledge of their sibling’s gender identity when others were unaware, witnessing their trans sibling’s negative experiences, and suppressing their own negative emotions. Positive experiences included: developing authentic sibling relationships, strengthening family relationships, support from family and social relationships, and developing their understanding of diversity and identity as an advocacy. Conclusions: Needs were identified as: provision of accessible and accurate information regarding trans identities and issues, increased trans visibility, connection with others in similar situations, and targeted counselling and services. KEY POINTS What is already known about this topic: Family support is associated with positive mental health outcomes and reduced suicide risk in trans populations. Parental support is not guaranteed for trans populations. Sibling relationships are often the longest and most influential relationships in life. What this topic adds: A description of the experiences of Australians with at least one trans sibling. An analysis of the positive and challenging aspects of the experiences of people with at least one trans sibling. An understanding of the support needs of the siblings of trans people.