"We don't take each other for granted anymore": Preloss Grief Among Older Adult Spousal Caregivers of Someone With Advanced Cancer.

Spousal caregivers of persons living with serious illnesses experience significant emotional and social challenges related to their caregiving role. The purpose of this study was to gain a deeper understanding of how spousal caregivers perceive current and anticipated losses associated with caring for a partner living with advanced cancer. Spousal caregiver participants engaged in semistructured interviews about their caregiving experiences and subsequent changes that occurred in their lives. Caregivers experienced social changes, emotional energy investment, and relationship changes as sources of grief. Social changes involved a loss of freedom and increased isolation, while emotional energy investment manifested as suppressed emotions and fears about the future. Relationship changes encompassed both positive and negative shifts in communication and roles. Targeted interventions, such as support groups and counseling, are essential to mitigate the negative impacts of caregiving and improve the well-being of older adult spousal caregivers.