在线约会中被拒绝的多面性:探索类型、原因和影响。

IF 4.2 2区 心理学 Q1 PSYCHOLOGY, SOCIAL
Tess van der Zanden, Janneke M Schokkenbroek
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摘要

在网上约会中,浪漫被拒是一种令人伤心却又常见的现象。虽然这一领域的研究在不断增加,但仍需要一个全面的、可比较的概述来更好地了解这些被拒绝的经历。本文介绍了两项横断面调查研究的结果,旨在更全面地概述网上约会中被拒绝的多个方面,特别是所使用的拒绝类型、(提供的)拒绝理由以及被拒绝的痛苦程度。研究 1(n = 177)的结果表明,鬼混是最常见的拒绝类型,即使在被拒绝之前已经交换了相当数量的信息。不匹配/屏蔽和有解释的拒绝发生率较低,但频率相当。此外,经历过有解释的拒绝的人的痛苦率最高,这就提出了关于这种明确拒绝背后原因的重要问题。研究 2 从拒绝者和被拒绝者的角度进一步解读了所提供的拒绝原因。在这些原因中,我们发现了五个类别,如(缺乏)吸引力和与关系投资相关的原因。我们讨论了拒绝者和被拒绝者提供的理由之间出现的一些有趣的差异。我们的研究强调了在线约会中被拒绝经历的多面性,并为今后进一步详细探讨拒绝类型、原因和痛苦程度之间的关系设定了研究方向。
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Multiple Facets of Rejections in Online Dating: Exploring Types, Reasons, and Impact.

Romantic rejections are a hurtful yet common occurrence in online dating. While research in this area is growing, there is a need for a comprehensive and comparative overview to understand these rejection experiences better. This article presents the results of two cross-sectional survey studies that aimed to create a more comprehensive overview of multiple facets of rejections in online dating, particularly the types of rejections used, the (provided) reasons for rejecting, and the painfulness of being rejected. Results of Study 1 (n = 177) show that ghosting was the most often experienced rejection type, even when a considerable number of messages was exchanged before the rejection. Unmatching/blocking and rejections with an explanation occurred less but equally often. Moreover, individuals who experienced rejections with an explanation reported the highest painfulness rates, which raised important questions about the reasons behind such explicit rejections. Study 2 further unpacked the provided rejection reasons, from the rejecter and the rejectee perspective. Five categories were identified among the reasons, such as (lack of) attraction and reasons related to relationship investment. Several interesting discrepancies that emerged between reasons provided by rejecters versus rejectees are discussed. Our work underlines the multifaceted nature of rejection experiences in online dating and sets directions for future research that further explores the relationships between rejection types, reasons, and painfulness in detail.

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CiteScore
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自引率
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发文量
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期刊介绍: Cyberpsychology, Behavior, and Social Networking is a leading peer-reviewed journal that is recognized for its authoritative research on the social, behavioral, and psychological impacts of contemporary social networking practices. The journal covers a wide range of platforms, including Twitter, Facebook, internet gaming, and e-commerce, and examines how these digital environments shape human interaction and societal norms. For over two decades, this journal has been a pioneering voice in the exploration of social networking and virtual reality, establishing itself as an indispensable resource for professionals and academics in the field. It is particularly celebrated for its swift dissemination of findings through rapid communication articles, alongside comprehensive, in-depth studies that delve into the multifaceted effects of interactive technologies on both individual behavior and broader societal trends. The journal's scope encompasses the full spectrum of impacts—highlighting not only the potential benefits but also the challenges that arise as a result of these technologies. By providing a platform for rigorous research and critical discussions, it fosters a deeper understanding of the complex interplay between technology and human behavior.
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