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摘要
婚姻是两个人之间的纽带,他们有一个崇高的目标,即创造一个为所有家庭成员带来和平(sakinah)和爱(mawaddah wa rahmah)的家庭。在传统的社区生活中,新组建的家庭和他们的孩子住在同一所房子里,或者和大家庭住在同一个街区。随着时代的发展,许多已婚夫妇由于某些因素而被迫进行异地婚姻,其中之一就是工作问题。处于异地婚姻关系中的丈夫和妻子,都面临着对家庭完整负责的问题。在夫妻分居的情况下,当然会造成生活在同一屋檐下的夫妻应该承担的角色的空白,从而使家庭功能发生变化。由于无法实现这些要求,在这样一个家庭中,夫妻之间发生冲突和纠纷并不罕见。在经历一段异地婚姻关系时,有许多事情肯定是需要考虑的,其中之一是沟通的需要,这可能被忽视,而心理和生理的需要必须得到满足。婚姻中未被满足的需求会导致个人通过不忠甚至离婚的方式在婚姻之外寻求这些需求的满足。伊斯兰教法视角下的异地婚姻是允许的,但有一定的条件。关键词:异地婚姻;伊斯兰教法
LONG DISTANCE MARRIAGE (LDM) DALAM PERSPEKTIF HUKUM ISLAM
Marriage is a bond between two humans who have a noble goal, namely creating a family that brings peace (sakinah) and love (mawaddah wa rahmah) for all family members. In traditional community life, newly formed families live in the same house with their children or live with extended families in the same neighborhood. Along with the times, many married couples are forced to do long-distance marriages due to certain factors, one of which is work problems. A husband and wife in a long-distance marital relationship, are faced with problems regarding responsibility for the integrity of the family. With the condition of husband and wife who are far apart, it can certainly create a void of roles that should be carried out by husband and wife who live under the same roof, so that family functions experience changes. As a result of the inability to carry out these demands, it is not uncommon to cause conflicts and disputes between husband and wife who live a household like this. In undergoing a long distance marriage relationship, there are many things that are certainly burdensome considerations, one of which is the need to communicate which may be neglected and psychological and biological needs that must be met. Unfulfilled needs in marriage will result in individuals seeking fulfillment of these needs outside of marriage through infidelity and even ending in divorce. Long distance marriage in the perspective of Islamic law for married couples is jaiz/permissible, but with some conditions
Keywords: Long Distance Marriage, Islamic Law