Impact of Siblings on Development Across the Lifespan: Case Study of a Sibling Pair over 60 Years.

Abstract

This paper provides a rare opportunity to see how a sibling relationship contributes centrally to how one finds one's place in the world of equals. The siblings studied were observed in Mahler's research nursery study of mother-child pairs, from birth to age 3, and were then followed over a 60-year period with a focus on the evolution of self and object mental representations, the vehicle through which earliest health or pathology is expressed. The lateral developmental trajectory of the sibling relationship is charted within the framework of the developing hierarchical relationship to the primary attachment figures-the parents. The extraordinary longitudinal data-which include not only in-depth details of the earliest mother-child interaction patterns, but also the details, and ramifications, of the introduction of a sibling into the family system-demonstrate how a sibling relationship can influence the development of the sense of self and other and reveal the powerful role a sibling can play as validator and confirmer of one's true sense of self. The data also show how therapeutic intervention can facilitate the restructuring of self and object representations, enhancing sibling bonds, which, in this case, facilitated improved understanding of their parents and a higher level of differentiation. These findings reinforce the importance of considering sibling dynamics in psychoanalytic theory and clinical practice.