This paper presents a gradient reproducing kernel based stabilized collocation method (GRK-SCM) to solve the generalized nonlinear 5th order Korteweg–de Vries (KdV) equations. By introducing gradient reproducing kernel (GRK) approximations, one can circumvent the intricacy of high-order derivatives in RK approximations, while still satisfying high-order consistency requirements. This leads to the high accuracy and efficiency. GRKs are very good approximation candidates for addressing high order partial differential equations that require higher order derivatives formulated as strong form. The stabilized collocation method (SCM) effectively meets high-order integration constraints which can achieve accurate integration in the subdomains. This ensures both high precision and optimal convergence. Von Neumann analysis is utilized to establish the stability criteria for GRK-SCM when combined with forward difference temporal discretization. Numerical solutions for Sawada–Kotera (SK) equation and Kaup-Kupershmidt (KK) equation are studied where the solitary wave migration and collision, and periodic waves are represented. A fifth order forced KdV equation is also considered. The presented method's high accuracy and convergence are demonstrated through comparative studies with analytical solutions, and investigations of invariants and corresponding errors determine the good conservation properties of this algorithm.