没有性教育就是性教育。

Stanley Snegroff
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尽管许多父母意识到对孩子进行性教育的重要性,但他们中的许多人发现自己无法轻松地谈论这个话题。除了他们自己的不适之外,父母还担心孩子对与他们讨论性的感受。那些不愿或不能与孩子讨论生活中这个重要而敏感的部分的父母以一种消极的方式呈现性,将其视为一种禁忌,而不是人类自然的一部分。提交人说,“任何性教育都不是性教育”,从这种缺乏教育中得到的信息可能是消极的。因此,从父母那里接受负面性信息的孩子长大后不太可能向父母讨论性问题。另一方面,与孩子们就性信息进行积极的沟通,会导致他们长大后继续讨论。因此,建立一个有利于开放和舒适交流的环境是非常重要的。以下是父母在对孩子进行性教育时的一些建议:1)要平易近人,2)要接受,3)简单地讨论问题并回答问题,4)诚实地讨论问题并回答问题。由地方学校、市民团体或宗教团体赞助的项目可以帮助缩小父母和子女在性方面存在的差距。
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No sexuality education is sexuality education.
Although many parents realize the importance of educating their children about sexuality, many of them find themselves unable to address the subject comfortably. In addition to their own discomfort, parents are concerned about how their children would feel about discussing sex with them. Parents who are unwilling or unable to discuss this important and sensitive part of life with their children present sexuality in a negative way and as a taboo rather than a natural part of being human. The author states that ¿no sexuality education is sexuality education,¿ and the message received from this lack of education may be a negative one. As a consequence, children who receive a negative message of sexuality from their parents are unlikely to turn to their parents to discuss sexual matters as they get older. On the other hand, positive communication about sexual information with children leads to ongoing discussions as they mature. Establishing an environment conducive to open and comfortable communication is therefore highly critical. The following are some tips for parents when educating their children about sexuality: 1) be approachable, 2) be accepting, 3) discuss issues and answer questions simply, and 4) discuss issues and answer questions honestly. Programs sponsored by local schools, civic organizations or religious groups can help narrow the gap that exists between parents and their children concerning human sexuality.
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