奥利韦里奥O.塞古拉,医学博士(1933-2021)透过一个儿子的眼睛——向父亲致敬

P. Segura
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我在托莱多市卢托坦的老矿业小镇巴里奥·达斯(唐·安德烈斯·索里亚诺)出生并长大,阿特拉斯联合矿业开发公司(ACMDC)就坐落在这里。父亲从60年代初开始在公司的医院做耳鼻喉科专家,在70年代初,他不仅是附近城镇(包括宿务市)的耳鼻喉科医生,也是周边省份的耳鼻喉科医生。在我上小学的时候,他是ACMDC医院的副院长(我们就住在公司后面的房子里,步行只有3分钟)。我对父亲的所作所为越来越感兴趣,有时放学后在他的诊所里呆上一个小时左右,惊叹于他治疗病人的效率,病人们看到他总是感到非常满意。在一天结束的时候,总是有“买”(篮子)的蔬菜、活鸡、淡水蟹、小龙虾、鲶鱼或罗非鱼。我想知道他是不是早些时候去了市场营销,但我知道他太忙了(妈妈就是这么做的),直到我注意到外面的病人排起了无尽的队伍,我想起了他说过的话:“在这里当医生——你永远不会挨饿!”后来我才意识到那是他病人的PFs(专业费用)。作为公司的医生,爸爸有固定的薪水、免费的住房、水电费、汽油、孩子的学费和一辆公司的汽车。这是完美的生活!该公司甚至赞助他在美国巴尔的摩的约翰霍普金斯大学进修。他是一个顾家的男人,他非常爱我们,也有点爱开玩笑,尤其是在吃饭的时候。爸爸的日常生活是从早上8点到下午5点,然后换上他的网球、佩洛塔或羽毛球服。他是一名运动员,在当地的体育比赛中赢得奖杯和奖牌。爸爸想让我去城里的菲律宾大学(UP)高中。我想换个环境会很有趣,但是我会想念我的朋友们。无论如何,我遵守了,在那里我开始明白,我的父亲不仅是在矿山执业的事件,而且在宿务医学研究所和宿务医生医学院(CDCM)任教,并在宿务市的大多数医院担任顾问。但他还是回到了山上,回到了卢托坦,我们的家所在的采矿小镇。旧的ACMDC医院被一个新的最先进的医院取代,现在命名为ACMDC医疗中心,包括烧伤科、创伤中心和手术室的观景台,供CDCM的教学实习生使用。爸爸很喜欢教他们。他们中的大多数人现在都是顾问,他们非常喜欢我爸爸,每次见到我都会向我问好。我爸爸喜欢制作飞机模型、汽车模型等,我8岁的时候就意识到我有这项技能,于是我做了我的第一个飞机模型。他曾经用巴尔萨木做过它们,非常熟练。我比不上他的一半,但我意识到这个爱好提高了他的手术技巧。我的父亲非常老练,他只是说在你成为飞行员之前要先学习工程课程(他的大多数兄弟都是工程师)。实际上,我尝试过工程学,但一年半后,我意识到自己不适合。实际上,我喜欢生物学和任何与生命有关的东西,以及我父亲在诊所和医院的活动……这就是医学院!在这个时候,我父亲已经是ORL中央米沙亚斯分会的主席,也是耳鼻喉科产品和听力中心的负责人。作为一名上世纪50年代末上普医学院的毕业生,我完成了耳鼻喉科的住院医师培训,并在眼科多学了一年,这是上普医学院最后完成的项目之一。他暗示,如果我在CDCM完成我的医学教育,我会考虑将耳鼻喉科作为住院医师培训项目,而上普医学院将是一个很好的培训中心。最后,我基本上继承了我父亲的眼科门诊手术,他教了我一些眼科门诊手术。爸爸向我展示了耳鼻喉科管理的临床和外科技术,特别是如何与病人打交道,而不仅仅是医生!这不是从书本上学到的,而是从经验中学到的。我从爸爸那里学到了很多。我想只是太幸运了!他实际上设计并制造了自己的耳鼻喉科治疗室,我至今仍在使用(我自己做了一些修改)。在我表弟(他现在是芝加哥的一名工程师)的帮助下,他创造了一种电动的“眼球磁铁”,它可以将眼球内的金属异物吸引到表面,这样就可以很容易地把它们挑出来——这真的很有效!爸爸年轻的时候喜欢旅行,特别是出国参加会议,或者只是休闲或度假,大部分时间都是和我妈妈在一起。但随着年龄的增长,旅行变得不舒服了。他最后一次和我一起旅行是2012年在华盛顿特区参加AAO-HNS大会。会议结束后,我们前往附近的弗吉尼亚州参加美国海军航空展,与从美国海军退役的哥哥见面,这是一段美好的时光。然后我们坐火车去了纽约,和我姐姐住在一起,她是纽约长老会医院的重症监护病房护士。 然后前往密苏里州和俄亥俄州参观美国空军国家博物馆,这是世界上最大的军用飞机博物馆。多年来,爸爸一直在与遗传性高胆固醇血症作斗争,这种疾病严重损害了他的肝脏,使他虚弱不堪,但他仍然坚持练习,继续教授和分享他的知识,直到80岁退休。那时,我妻子和我周末会带他和我妈妈出去玩,他喜欢开车到处兜风,在不同的地方吃饭。在他生命的最后几年里,我亲眼目睹了他是如何忍受疾病的折磨的。但他从来没有表现出来,也没有抱怨过,甚至从来没有想过要用拐杖!他不想成为任何人的负担。对我影响最大的是,我父亲去世了,而我却不在他身边。我帮忙叫了一名医生赶到家里,并为他准备了氧气瓶,因为他的终末期肝硬化导致了心肺并发症(非covid)。在这一切中,我是一个因为COVID-19肺炎住院14天的人。在我出院的时候,父亲在家里平静地去世了。他享年88岁。我从来没有找到他只是为了说再见,当我回到家时,我哭了,因为我还在从病毒性肺炎中恢复过来,呼吸困难。我从我的亲人那里了解到,父亲不希望我像我一直做的那样,因为照顾他而感到压力,而是让自己休息和恢复。想到这里,我又哭了。在我看来,他不仅是一位伟大的内科医生和外科医生,也是一位最伟大的父亲。他过着充实的生活,通过他的治疗、慈善服务和教授新医生,感动了这么多人。正是看到、记住并继承他所展示和教给我们的东西,才真正让我们怀念他。我真的很爱也很想念我的爸爸,我脸上带着微笑,我看到他也很高兴能和他的兄弟姐妹们在一起。他休息得很好。他是一个满足的人,我记得他总是这样说:“只要我头上有屋顶,有床可以休息,我就没事了!”
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Oliverio O. Segura, MD (1933-2021) Through A Son’s Eyes – A Tribute to Dad
I was born and raised in the old mining town of Barrio DAS (Don Andres Soriano), Lutopan, Toledo City where Atlas Consolidated Mining and Development Corp. (ACMDC) is situated. Dad started his practice in the company’s hospital as an EENT specialist in the early 60’s and was the ‘go to’ EENT Doc not only of nearby towns or cities (including Cebu City) but also the surrounding provinces in the early 70’s. In my elementary years, he was Assistant Director of ACMDC Hospital (we lived just behind in company housing, only a 3-minute walk). I grew interested in what my dad did, sometimes staying in his clinic an hour or so after school, amazed at how efficiently he handled his patients who always felt so satisfied seeing him. At the end of the day, there was always ‘buyot’ (basket) of vegetables, live chickens, freshwater crabs, crayfish, catfish or tilapia. I wondered if he went marketing earlier, but knew he was too busy for that (and mom did that) until I noticed endless lines of patients outside and remembered when he would say: “Being a doctor here - you’ll never go hungry!” I later realized they were PFs (professional fees) of his patients. As a company doctor, Dad received a fixed salary, free housing, utilities, gasoline, schooling for kids and a company car. It was the perfect life! The company even sponsored his further training in Johns-Hopkins, Baltimore, USA.   A family man, he loved us so much and was a bit of a joker too, especially at mealtimes. Dad’s daily routine was from 8 am – 5 pm and changed into his tennis, pelota, or badminton outfit. He was the athlete, winning trophies and medals in local sports matches.   Dad wanted me to go to the University of the Philippines (UP) High School in the city. I thought a change of environment would be interesting, but I would miss my friends. Anyway, I complied and there I started to understand that my dad was not just an EENT practicing in the Mines but was teaching in Cebu Institute of Medicine and Cebu Doctors College of Medicine (CDCM) and was a consultant in most of the hospitals in Cebu City. And still he went back up to the mountains, back to Lutopan, our mining town where our home was. The old ACMDC hospital was replaced with a new state-of-the-art hospital now named ACMDC Medical Center, complete with Burn Unit, Trauma center and an observation deck in the OR for teaching interns from CDCM. Dad enjoyed teaching them. Most of them are consultants today who are so fond of my dad that they always send their regards when they see me.   My dad loved making model airplanes, vehicles, etc. and I realized I had that skill when I was 8 years old and I made my first airplane model. He used to build them out of Balsa wood which is so skillful. I can’t be half the man he was but I realized this hobby enhanced his surgical skills. My dad was so diplomatic and just said to get an engineering course before you become a pilot (most of dads brothers are engineers). I actually gave engineering a go, but after 1 ½ years I realized I was not cut out for it. I actually loved Biology and anything dealing with life and with all the exposure to my dad’s clinic and hospital activities … med school it was!   At this point, my dad was already President of the ORL Central Visayas Chapter and was head of ENT Products and Hearing Center. As a graduate of the UP College of Medicine who finished Otorhinolaryngology residency with an additional year in Ophthalmology as one of the last EENTs to finish in UP PGH in the late 50’s, he hinted that if I finished my medical schooling in CDCM that I consider Otorhinolaryngology as a residency program and that UP-PGH would be a good training center. I ended up inheriting the ORL practice of my dad mostly, who taught me some of Ophthalmology outpatient procedures. Dad showed me clinical and surgical techniques in ENT management especially how to deal with patients beyond being a doctor! You don’t learn this in books but from experience. I learned a lot from my dad. Just so lucky I guess! He actually designed and made his own ENT Treatment Unit, which I’m still using to this day (with some modifications of my own). And he created a certain electrically powered ‘eye magnet’ with the help of my cousin (who’s an engineer now in Chicago) which can attract metallic foreign bodies from within the eyeball to the surface so they can easily be picked out – it really works!   Dad loved to travel in his younger years especially abroad for conventions or just simply leisure or vacations, most of the time with my mom. But as he was getting older, travels became uncomfortable. His last travel with me was in 2012 for the AAO-HNS Convention in Washington DC. It was a great time as we then proceeded to a US Navy Airshow in nearby Virginia after the convention, meeting up with my brother who is retired from the USN. Then we took the train to New York and stayed with my sister who is a PICU nurse in NY Presbyterian. Then off to Missouri and Ohio visiting the National Museum of the US Air Force, the largest military aircraft museum in the world.   For years, Dad had been battling with heredofamilial-hypercholesterolemia problem which took its toll on his liver and made him weak and tired but still he practiced and continued teaching and sharing his knowledge until he retired at the age of 80. By then, my wife and I would take him and my mom out on weekends, he loved to be driven around and eat in different places. I really witnessed and have seen how he suffered from his illness in his final years. But he never showed it or complained, never even wanted to use a cane! He didn’t want to be a burden to anyone. What most affected me was that my dad passed and I wasn’t even there. I had helped call for a physician to rush to the house and had oxygen cylinders to be brought for him as his end stage liver cirrhosis was causing cardio-pulmonary complications (non-COVID). Amidst all this I was the one admitted for 14 days because of COVID-19 pneumonia. My dad passed away peacefully at home as I was being discharged from the hospital. He was 88. I never reached him just to say good bye and cried when I reached home still dyspneic recovering from the viral pneumonia. I realized from my loved ones who told me that dad didn’t want me to stress out taking care of him, as I’ve been doing ever since, but instead to rest and recuperate myself. I cried again with that thought. In my view, he was not only a great Physician and Surgeon but also the greatest Dad. He lived a full life and touched so many lives with his treatments, charity services and teaching new physicians. It’s seeing, remembering and carrying on what he showed and taught us that really makes us miss him. I really love and miss my dad and with a smile on my face, I see he’s also happy to be with his brothers and sisters who passed on ahead. And that he’s rested. He is a man content, I remember he always said this, ‘ As long as I have a roof over my head and a bed to rest my back, I’m okay!”
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