父母在虐待婴儿的风险下寻求咨询的愿望

IF 0.6 4区 医学 Q4 PSYCHIATRY
Emmanuel de Becker (Psychiatre infanto-juvénile, Psychothérapeute)
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摘要

目的本论文旨在探讨父母在为孩子寻求(或不寻求)帮助的决定时所表现出的不同态度,无论是身体和/或精神健康问题,以便找出一些可能的帮助专业人士的方法。为了做到这一点,我们将探讨父母“渴望”咨询医疗-心理-社会工作者的不同情况,其影响可能导致虐待儿童的情况。方法冒着过于简单的风险,我们建议将父母在咨询或不咨询专业人员时可能使用的姿势分为七类。我们接受这种分类的随意性。应该注意的是,在最初的专业人员/父母/孩子接触时呈现的每个表格都可以根据几个参数的演变从一个类别切换到另一个类别,无论这些参数是个人的、关系的还是上下文的。结果我们将重点关注两个具体的案例,它们反映了成年人对孩子的巨大焦虑,这可能导致父母对孩子产生妄想,或者是一个或多或少复杂的过程,利用年轻人的状态达到一个明确的目的。因此,我们将一方面介绍父母疏离综合症(PAS)的情况,另一方面介绍父母在孩子身上“制造”症状的情况,这种症状的范式由代理孟乔森综合症(MSP)代表。在寻求专业帮助的愿望和父母对孩子的关心背后,有时隐藏着难以识别的父母不足的情况。因此,让我们记住虐待儿童的假设,当我们质疑咨询方法的来由时,会引起困惑,令人不安的父母的担忧……让我们还指出,我们以母亲打电话给专业人员的案例为范例,唤起了这些实体;很明显,许多情况都与父亲有关,尤其是当涉及到疏远的过程时。无论如何,在我看来,从对儿童及其随行人员提供有关支助的角度来看,尽可能准确地处理所遇到的关系背景似乎是有用的。不加判断的理解通常是任何关怀和支持干预的第一步。否则,专业人员就会受到威胁,因为他们只是一个演员,自愿地(无意识地)沉浸在一个假设的虐待系统中。最后,当我们认为孩子被当作工具时,我们必须要小心,因为在很多情况下……结论对专业人士来说,其中一个风险是只看到父母的主要要求的表面价值,而没有花时间去探索这个过程的来龙去路。在这种情况下,孩子是咨询的对象,而不是照顾的对象。还应该指出,协商的理由有时只存在于父母的陈述,他们的信念,甚至他们的肯定;可能发生的情况是,儿童在他们的身体或心理或关系功能上没有表现出明确的求助信号。主观性比以往任何时候都更多地出现在父母和专业人士身上。因此,我们必须谨慎地以一些基准为基础,以避免产生令人恐惧的结果。
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Du désir parental de consulter au risque de la maltraitance infanto-juvénile

Objective

This contribution proposes to address different aspects of parental posture as regards the decision to seek help (or not) for their child, whether for a physical and/or mental health issue, in order to identify some possible ways of helping the professional. To do this, we will explore different scenarios of the parent's “desire” to consult a medical-psycho-social worker, whose repercussions can result in a situation of child abuse.

Method

At the risk of being schematic, we propose to group into seven categories the possible postures used by the parent when consulting, or not consulting, a professional for any reason. We accept the arbitrary nature of this classification. It should be noted that each table presented at the moment of the initial professional/parent(s)/child contact can switch from one category to another according to the evolution of several parameters, whether they are individual, relational, or contextual.

Result

We will focus on two specific cases that reflect the adult's massive anxieties towards the child, which can lead to the parent's development of delusions about the child, or a more or less elaborate process of using the state of the young person for a defined purpose. Thus, we will present, on the one hand, situations of parental alienation syndrome (PAS) and, on the other hand, situations in which parents “create” symptoms in their children, whose paradigm is represented by Munchausen syndrome by proxy (MSP).

Discussion

Behind the desire to seek professional help and the parent's concern for the child, there are sometimes hidden situations of parental inadequacy that are difficult to identify. Thus, let us keep in mind the hypothesis of child abuse, when we question the ins and outs of a consultation approach that gives rise to puzzlement, to a disconcerting parental concern… Let us also point out that we evoke these entities by taking as paradigmatic the case of a mother calling on the professional; it is obvious that many situations concern fathers, certainly when it comes to processes of alienation. In any event, it seems to me useful, from the point of view of relevant support for the child and his or her entourage, to address as precisely as possible the relational context encountered. Understanding without judgment is usually the first step in any care and support intervention. Otherwise, the professional is threatened with being merely an actor immersed (in)-voluntarily, (un)-consciously, in a hypothetically abusive system. Ultimately, we have to be careful when we consider that a child is being used as a tool, because there are many situations…

Conclusion

One of the risks for the professional is to take at face value the parent's primary request without taking the time to explore the ins and outs of the process. The child in this case is the object of a consultation, not the object of care. It should also be pointed out that the reason for consultation is sometimes present only in the representations of the parent, their convictions or even their certainties; it may happen that children do not display clear calls for help in their body or in their psychological or relational functioning. More than ever, the share of subjectivity is present in both the parent and the professional. We will therefore have to be careful to base ourselves on a few benchmarks in order to avoid producing what is feared.
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期刊介绍: Une revue de référence pour le praticien, le chercheur et le étudiant en sciences humaines Cahiers de psychologie clinique et de psychopathologie générale fondés en 1925, Évolution psychiatrique est restée fidèle à sa mission de ouverture de la psychiatrie à tous les courants de pensée scientifique et philosophique, la recherche clinique et les réflexions critiques dans son champ comme dans les domaines connexes. Attentive à histoire de la psychiatrie autant aux dernières avancées de la recherche en biologie, en psychanalyse et en sciences sociales, la revue constitue un outil de information et une source de référence pour les praticiens, les chercheurs et les étudiants.
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