区分浪漫之爱和成熟之爱重新审视三个棺材

IF 1.2 2区心理学 Q1 PSYCHOLOGY, PSYCHOANALYSIS

International Journal of Psychoanalysis Pub Date : 2024-08-01 Epub Date: 2024-09-04 DOI:10.1080/00207578.2024.2322081

John Steiner

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弗洛伊德关于三个棺材的论文被重新讨论。他认为铅棺代表死亡的观点得到了《威尼斯商人》节选的支持，尤其是歌曲《告诉我幻想在哪里孕育》。他认为，接受死亡是浪漫爱情向成熟爱情转变的必要步骤。随着对现实的体验，浪漫的理想化幻灭成为可能，但这意味着必须接受和哀悼损失。有人认为，如果反讽的立场能够让人接受浪漫的快乐，而不相信它们是真实的，那么这种接受和哀悼就会变得更加容易。

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Differentiating between romantic and mature love: Revisiting the three caskets.

Freud's paper on the three caskets is revisited. His view that the lead casket represented death is supported by extracts from The Merchant of Venice, in particular the song, "Tell Me Where is Fancy Bred". It is argued that the acceptance of death is a necessary step in the transformation of romantic love to mature love. With experience of reality a disillusion of romantic idealisation becomes possible, but this means that losses have to be accepted and mourned. It is argued that this is made more bearable if an ironic stance enables an acceptance of the pleasures of romance without believing them to be literally true.

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International Journal of Psychoanalysis PSYCHOLOGY, PSYCHOANALYSIS-

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