The true value of a mental health nurse: the lessons that I learned by becoming a mental health service user

This is a personal reflection on the experience of becoming a mental health service user, 10 years into my career as a mental health nurse. My experiences as a mental health service user caused me to re-evaluate the true value of a mental health nurse. Qualities such as compassion and advocacy are more important to service users than standardised generic interventions. This article examines the importance of hope and the therapeutic relationship, stressing the true value and impact of a mental health nurse. Finally, a brief critique of the concept of recovery is offered. It is an encouragement and motivation to mental health professionals to be the nurse that service users want and need.