{"title":"什么样的恋爱关系能让一对情侣建立长期的关系:浪漫、包办婚姻还是网上相亲?","authors":"Anne M. Power","doi":"10.33212/ATT.V12N1.2018.25","DOIUrl":null,"url":null,"abstract":"This paper looks at different routes into a long-term couple attachment. It asks some preliminary questions about the differences between them and how effective they may be at helping individuals make a lasting and mutually fulfilling bond. It distinguishes between the experience of being in love and that of a long-term attachment bond; there is recognition that the transition from one to the other may be especially challenging for people with insecure attachment patterns. The conclusion suggests that a family background with secure attachments is beneficial for those using any of these three main routes into relationship.","PeriodicalId":296880,"journal":{"name":"Attachment: New Directions in Psychotherapy and Relational Psychoanalysis","volume":"105 1","pages":"0"},"PeriodicalIF":0.0000,"publicationDate":"2018-09-01","publicationTypes":"Journal Article","fieldsOfStudy":null,"isOpenAccess":false,"openAccessPdf":"","citationCount":"0","resultStr":"{\"title\":\"What kind of courtship sets a couple up for long-term attachment: romance, arranged marriage, or online matching-making?\",\"authors\":\"Anne M. Power\",\"doi\":\"10.33212/ATT.V12N1.2018.25\",\"DOIUrl\":null,\"url\":null,\"abstract\":\"This paper looks at different routes into a long-term couple attachment. It asks some preliminary questions about the differences between them and how effective they may be at helping individuals make a lasting and mutually fulfilling bond. It distinguishes between the experience of being in love and that of a long-term attachment bond; there is recognition that the transition from one to the other may be especially challenging for people with insecure attachment patterns. The conclusion suggests that a family background with secure attachments is beneficial for those using any of these three main routes into relationship.\",\"PeriodicalId\":296880,\"journal\":{\"name\":\"Attachment: New Directions in Psychotherapy and Relational Psychoanalysis\",\"volume\":\"105 1\",\"pages\":\"0\"},\"PeriodicalIF\":0.0000,\"publicationDate\":\"2018-09-01\",\"publicationTypes\":\"Journal Article\",\"fieldsOfStudy\":null,\"isOpenAccess\":false,\"openAccessPdf\":\"\",\"citationCount\":\"0\",\"resultStr\":null,\"platform\":\"Semanticscholar\",\"paperid\":null,\"PeriodicalName\":\"Attachment: New Directions in Psychotherapy and Relational Psychoanalysis\",\"FirstCategoryId\":\"1085\",\"ListUrlMain\":\"https://doi.org/10.33212/ATT.V12N1.2018.25\",\"RegionNum\":0,\"RegionCategory\":null,\"ArticlePicture\":[],\"TitleCN\":null,\"AbstractTextCN\":null,\"PMCID\":null,\"EPubDate\":\"\",\"PubModel\":\"\",\"JCR\":\"\",\"JCRName\":\"\",\"Score\":null,\"Total\":0}","platform":"Semanticscholar","paperid":null,"PeriodicalName":"Attachment: New Directions in Psychotherapy and Relational Psychoanalysis","FirstCategoryId":"1085","ListUrlMain":"https://doi.org/10.33212/ATT.V12N1.2018.25","RegionNum":0,"RegionCategory":null,"ArticlePicture":[],"TitleCN":null,"AbstractTextCN":null,"PMCID":null,"EPubDate":"","PubModel":"","JCR":"","JCRName":"","Score":null,"Total":0}
What kind of courtship sets a couple up for long-term attachment: romance, arranged marriage, or online matching-making?
This paper looks at different routes into a long-term couple attachment. It asks some preliminary questions about the differences between them and how effective they may be at helping individuals make a lasting and mutually fulfilling bond. It distinguishes between the experience of being in love and that of a long-term attachment bond; there is recognition that the transition from one to the other may be especially challenging for people with insecure attachment patterns. The conclusion suggests that a family background with secure attachments is beneficial for those using any of these three main routes into relationship.