Catching Feelings: Narrating the Emerging Adults’ Relational Process

Abstract

ABSTRACT This study explores the relational process of catching feelings and examines how emerging adults view the catching feelings process. In a two-step collection process through focus groups (n = 17) and individual interviews (n = 15), collegiate (or early) emerging adults discussed the relational process of catching feelings. This relational process begins when initially the person who catches feelings engages in a relational investigation of their potential new partner, relying on disclosure to cultivate their budding feelings. This relational investigation, using rumination and information seeking to reduce uncertainty, helps to bring individuals closer to their Person of Interest, hopefully culminating in mutual disclosure and connection. These findings offer insight into the conceptualization of emerging adult contemporary romantic relationships.