The Echo of Narcissus: An "as-if" experience.

Abstract

The clinical dilemmas in this 6 year analysis, with this single woman in her 30s, (whom I saw mostly in candidacy), unfolded into a dramatic, yet simultaneously stalled analysis that remained intrapsychically frozen. My conceptualization of the interaction was of the patient and me as Echo and Narcissus. The best I felt I could do for her, and for the analysis, was to explore those dimensions - yet always the enactment seemed more of a self-exploration than a meaningful communication with her. I include some ideas of how I might proceed somewhat differently, many years later. The despair in the contact led me to a more empathic view of the yearning of Narcissus, which has classically been interpreted as his cruel failure to appreciate Echo's beauty and love for him, due to his self-absorbed love of himself. I introduce his deeper yearning as a constantly frustrated desire to contact the mind of the other. The punishment of Echo, reduced to echolalia, deprived her of an intercommunicative mind, except for a sound suggesting a craven dependency. This was frustratingly far from her intention too, and confined her to her physicality alone. Their stall led to emotional death. Did ours?