Building Harmonious Interpersonal Relationship of Dormitory in Private University based on PAC Personality Structure Theory

Abstract

With the popularity of the internet, the influence of dormitory on university students is becoming more and more important. Dormitory relationship becomes the basic interpersonal relationship of university students. In order to construct harmonious interpersonal relationship in private universities, based on the PAC theory of personality structure, this paper puts forward the mode of "adult-adult" communication in private universities. Firstly, the PAC theory of personality structure is introduced, and then the problem of interpersonal conflict in private university dormit-ory is analyzed by this theory, which shows the lack of awareness of others' egostate. The structure of ego-psychology is rigid and the adult ego deficiency. Finally, from the three aspects of individuals, schools and families to explore the way to construct the "adult-adult" communication model of dormit-ory: vigorously promote the collective conscious-ness of "adult-adult" type of communication in dormitory. Actively construct the school service system of the "adult-adult" communication mode. Effectively broaden the family support system of the "adult-adult" communication mode