Arab American women and the generational cycle of shame: A cognitive reading of Etaf Rum's A Woman Is No Man.

The essay uses a cognitive narratological approach to analyze how Etaf Rum's A Woman Is No Man (2019) negotiates Arab American patriarchal culture through the lens of shame. By narrating the emotional experiences of Arab American women who bear the pain of shame while they also engage in shaming others, Rum gives readers the opportunity to understand better the complex relationship between the psychology of shame and the "shame of gender" in patriarchal Arab American culture. Not only does A Woman Is No Man articulate the lived experiences of one of the most "forgotten" and silenced ethnic groups within American literature and culture, it also draws attention to how gender-based shaming is shaped by, and contributes to shaping, a culture of patriarchy and male power. The novel uncovers the different ways in which shame impacts the minds and bodies of Arab American women across three generations, while also laying bare the psychological, gendered, and socio-culturally embedded aspects that shape the elicitation, experience, expression, and regulation of shame.