A matter of balance. Positioning of parents' selves through negotiations of symptoms' meaning at a pain clinic for children/young people.

This paper traces how the meaning of symptoms and the positioning of selves are entangled and discursively constructed in therapeutic conversations between parents and therapists at a pain clinic for children and young people (age 8 to 18) with recurrent or chronic pain or other somatic symptoms with no established biophysical pathology. Based on data material from an ethnographic fieldwork it is examined how the selves of respectively children/young people and their parents are discursively positioned in conversational encounters and the role positioning of selves play in the context of establishing and negotiating the symptoms' meaning. The bearer of medically unexplained symptoms is oftentimes subjected to moral assessments. In this paper it will be shown that parents, in the institutional setting of the pain clinic, enter the negotiation of moral assessments assigned to their children, and that these moral assessments not only concern the sufferers' selves but also the selves of the parents. The overall argument is that dialogues between parents and therapists concerning the meaning and source of their children's symptoms are simultaneously negotiations in which not only the sufferers'  but also their parents' moral positions are at stake.